1、子查询关联
select t.*,
(select parent_name from table where id=t.parent_id) from table t where ...
例如:thinkphp分页自关联查询
$Model = new \Think\Model();
$sql="select t.*, (select name from table where id = t.parentId) parent_name fromtable t order by id desc limit ".$Page->firstRow . ",$Page->listRows";
$list = $Model->query($sql);
2、左连接查询
select * from table t1 left join table t2 on t1.parent_id=t2.id where ...