ERROR 2003 (HY000): Can't connect to MySQL server on (10061)

在linux系统上装了一个mysql-5.5，启动后本机都是可以访问的，操作都正常，同时建了一个%的用户（支持远程访问），

root@debian:/# mysql -u loongson -p
Enter password: 
Welcome to the MySQL monitor.  Commands end with ; or \g.
Your MySQL connection id is 39
Server version: 5.5.40-0+wheezy1 (Debian)

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Type 'help;' or '\h' for help. Type '\c' to clear the current input statement.

mysql> show databases;
+--------------------+
| Database           |
+--------------------+
| information_schema |
+--------------------+
1 row in set (0.00 sec)

mysql> 

但是用别的电脑连接就是报错

C:\Users\Administrator>mysql -h 192.168.1.109 -u -loongson -p
Enter password: ******
ERROR 2003 (HY000): Can't connect to MySQL server on '192.168.1.109' (10061)

上网查了很多资料，有的说是用户没有设置权限，但是我的已经设置好了

mysql>  SELECT DISTINCT CONCAT('User: ''',user,'''@''',host,''';') AS query FROM mysql.user;
+---------------------------------------+
| query                                 |
+---------------------------------------+
| User: 'loongson'@'%';                 |
| User: 'root'@'127.0.0.1';             |

有的说在my.cnf中添加

skip-name-resolve

加后重启还是不行

最后看了 dkcndk 的博客 cnblogs.com/dkblog/archive/2008/06/27/1980793.html

my.ini(my.cnf)默认的bind-address是127.0.0.1，这样的话就算你创建的用户有可以remote访问的话 也不能通过-h 来访问。 mysql只接受localhost。 所以把bind-address屏蔽掉即可。

找到自己的my.cnf修改，重启，问题果然解决，非常感谢dkcndk的贡献，这个很有用