原文
We can't move beyond the past until our emotional debts are paid.
Many people today live under the weight of loans and credit cards.As harmful as financial debt is, there is another form of debt that is even more damaging-emotional debts.
Dr.James Richards states that emotional debts occurs"When we experience emotional pain that remians unresolved." if the pain is not dealt with,it will affect us our entire lives.
Thoughtout th years, we have chances for happiness,love and success. But unresolved pain can emerge, causing us to respond in ways that aren't resonable, resulting in destroyed relationship and lost opportunities.
Another negative result of emotional debt is that our friends and loved ones are affected by it and pay a high price. When we have a tendency to respond inappropriately,we often hurt those around us. Unfortunately our unresolved pronblems sometimes become too much for them to handle.causing them to abandon the relationship.
People with destructive pattens should check their lives for signs of unresolved pain.
词汇
loan: 贷款 借出
This bank offers loans with lower rates to small bussinesses.
Bob has to work two jobs to pay his student loan.
Our neightbors were kind enought to loan us their truck.
unresolved 未解决的
Malanie and her ex still have some unresolved issues.
The conflict betweem this couple remained unresolved even after counseling.
tendency 倾向
Eddie has the tendency to brag when he wants to impress girls.
The film discusses the hidden tendency of human to be selfish.
destructive
The destructive power of ths hurricane caused many people to lose their homes.
construct
It took three years to construct this bridge.
句型：
Do you ever experience negative emotions?
How do you deal with negative emotions?
Do you ever bottle up your emotions? 压抑情感
Can I ask you a fevor? 这是比较礼貌的用法
Do me a favor. Can you not talk when I'm trying to read. 帮帮忙（不客气）,别在我看书的时候说话
to pay a price